Sex is fun, messy and puzzling. We all have questions about it and we wish that we knew all of the answers.
If you’re a guy, chances are that you’ve wondered about at least a few of the following sex questions. Based on our analysis of male comments and information requests, here are seven of the most common questions that guys have about sex.
Does The Size Of My Penis Matter?
The question about size is the number one guy inquiry. There’s a logical explanation for the popularity of the question.
People are self-conscious creatures. Women worry about cellulite, their bellies and the size of their thighs during sex. Men worry about the size of their penis.
A big penis has always been perceived as a sign of masculinity. An alpha male needs to have a huge penis, period. Still, many guys have unrealistic expectations when it comes to the size of the penis and how much it matters during sex.
Size does matter for guys that may be suffering from a condition called micro-penis. An average size is sufficient to please a woman. As the cliché goes, it’s not about the size but rather about how you use it. The cliché holds true in this instance.
Unless you have a really tiny member, chances are that she’s perfectly satisfied with what you have to offer. Still not certain? You should just go ahead and ask your woman about it. Chances are that she’ll give you a reassuring answer.
Can I Really Make My Penis Bigger?
If the size of your penis is the cause of insecurities and the lack of self-confidence, you should definitely do something about it.
Increasing the size of your penis is possible. The use of traction devices is one of the best options you have when it comes to non-invasive methods. A penis extender will give you permanent gains but you’ll have to be consistent and serious in terms of using the device.
There are other options you can use to increase your penis temporarily. Male enhancement pills, for example, increase the size of your erection. After all, this is what you need to accomplish in order to have more confidence and fun during sex.
When choosing extenders and natural enhancement supplements, remember that the quality of such products is very important. Take your time and do enough research prior to buying one item or another.
How Can I Tell If She Really Enjoyed It?
Many women are experts at faking pleasure. Still, it’s very important to figure out whether she really enjoyed sex or if she’s faking it.
One of the easiest ways to figure out if she enjoyed sex is to… gasp… ask her! Open communication about your intimate life is the best way to make it better. Take guesswork out of the equation – both of you will appreciate the outcome.
Remember that a woman who screams and puts up a show during sex could be faking it. On the other end of the spectrum – a lady that’s quieter in bed may have just had the best orgasm of her life. Some guys are capable of detecting the vaginal contractions that accompany the female orgasm. Still, don’t take things for granted. Talk to her!
How Can I Give Her An Orgasm Every Single Time?
You have to accept the fact that the female orgasm is a complex thing. Even women who know their bodies incredibly well may find it difficult to climax every single time.
Stress, anxiety and even fatigue could make it impossible for her to come.
Accept the fact that you may be incapable of giving her an orgasm every single time. That’s ok! The climax shouldn’t turn in an end goal by itself. Even if they don’t reach an orgasm, most women will enjoy the sex itself and will feel the arousal.
When it comes to being a better lover, there are a few things you can do. Dedicate enough time to foreplay. Learn where she likes to be kissed and touched – every woman has her preferences. Go down on her, if she likes oral sex. Finally, you should let her take charge. By being in control, a woman is going to give you a lot of information about what she enjoys the most.
What Does It Take To Make Her More Adventurous In Bed?
Is your girlfriend or wife a bit shy in bed? Are things starting to get a little bit boring? Chances are that you’d like her to be a bit more adventurous and daring.
At the same time, telling her that the sex you’re currently having is a bit boring isn’t the best way to stimulate her.
You can start by asking her about her fantasies. She may need some time to open up, especially if she thinks that the sexual practices that she fantasizes about are embarrassing. Being patient and understanding, however, will get her to open up sooner or later.
Once you have a better idea about her wild side, start working on bringing those fantasies to reality. You can also discuss your fantasies. If you make her sexual dreams come true, chances are that she’ll be willing to reciprocate.
What Can I Do To Last Longer? Does She Want Me To?
Unless you finish within 30 seconds of penetration, chances are that you’re lasting long enough in bed.
There are a few things you can do to prolong intercourse.
Using desensitizing creams or condoms is one of the easiest options. When picking such products, however, you will have to be careful about their quality. Otherwise, you’ll end up feeling very numb. The numbness will interfere with sexual enjoyment.
Alternatively, you can try one of the many techniques used to overcome premature ejaculation. We’ve discussed some of them here.
Why Can’t I Orgasm?
Some guys orgasm too quickly. Others have a problem that’s on the other end of the spectrum – they can’t orgasm at all.
The inability to orgasm could be linked to age, sexual experience and stress level. Some men are also heavily dependent on masturbation to climax. When having sex with a partner, they’ll find it difficult to come.
If you have trouble very often, you may want to talk to a sex therapist. Figuring out what the underlying cause of the condition is will make it easier to identify the right solution.