Human sexuality is such a mysterious thing! Our bodies are capable of accomplishing so much. Various physiological functions can be changed in ways that are difficult to imagine.
Dry orgasms rank among the most curious things that our bodies can accomoplish. It does take effort to master the technique. While difficult, however, it may be worth a try.
What Is A Dry Orgasm?
In men, orgasm and ejaculation are linked to each other. If a man doesn’t ejaculate, it is safe to assume that he hasn’t climaxed.
A thing called a dry orgasm does exist, however. A dry orgasm refers to climaxing without ejaculating.
Dry orgasms are an important part of tantric sex practices. In tantric sex, ejaculation control is incredibly important for taking the experience to the next level.
According to tantric practices, good sex is all about having full control over sexual energy. By learning how to control their ejaculation, men become capable of harnessing this energy and using it to make sex tremendously pleasurable.
In tantric sex, a dry orgasm is sometimes called a full-body orgasm. Practitioners say that it is much more powerful than the regular orgasm that is accompanied by ejaculation. In addition, the practice enables guys to experience multiple orgasms during a single love-making session.
Medical Causes Of Dry Orgasms
Some men experience dry orgasms without having to practice. In such instances, however, the absence of ejaculation could be indicative of a problem.
For some men who are excessively dependent on masturbation and adult films for stimulation (especially if the practice started at an early age), it may be impossible to ejaculate during intercourse and it may even be impossible to produce seminal fluid.
Retrograde ejaculation is a medical problem that is also characterized by the lack of seminal fluid discharge during an orgasm.
A few of the most common medical causes of dry orgasms in men include the following:
- A blocked sperm duct
- Testosterone deficiency
- Undergoing prostate laser surgery
- Spinal cord injury
- Bladder removal surgery
- A genetic abnormality that affects the functioning of the reproductive system
- Taking high blood pressure medications (a side effect)
If you’ve been experiencing dry orgasms all of your life or their onset was sudden and later on in life, you will need to talk to a physician. Chances are that you’re experiencing a medical condition that can be resolved.
The Benefits Of A Dry Orgasm
Experiencing a dry orgasm comes with a range of benefits. If you’re wondering whether you should give the technique a try, here are a few of the advantages that you’ll potentially get to experience because of it.
As already mentioned, a dry orgasm heightens sensations during the climax. Most men that have experienced a dry orgasm report that it happens to be a lot more intense than a regular orgasm. In fact, some guys that experience a dry orgasm can’t go on having sex because of the over-stimulation and the fatigue resulting from the intensity of the experience.
Dry male orgasms can be experienced several times during a single sexual encounter. Most men don’t have the ability to experience multiple orgasms like women do. This can be changed through the regular practice of orgasm without ejaculation.
Men who experience an authentic dry orgasm do not lose their erection. This is the main difference between a practiced dry orgasm and retrograde ejaculation. Retrograde ejaculation means that semen has been released but it’s still inside the body. Thus, the erection will be lost. An orgasm that isn’t accompanied by an ejaculation keeps the erection intact and allows for a prolonged love-making session.
Finally, dry orgasms don’t come with a drop in arousal or libido. True masters of the technique can go at it for a very long period of time without losing any of their enthusiasm or desire to keep on going until their partner is fully-satisfied, as well.
How To Have A Dry Orgasm
Learning to have a dry orgasm takes time and it requires effort. Don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t happen the first few times you give it a try. Have fun, keep on practicing and you will eventually get there.
For a start, the technique begins with edging during masturbation. Edging refers to stimulating yourself until you feel like you’re very close to climaxing. This is when the stimulation should stop and you should give yourself a bit of time to compose yourself.
The technique involves using edging multiple times. It also focuses on strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through kegel exercises.
While having sex, bring yourself close to orgasm and slow down. Once you feel that you can’t hold it any longer, squeeze the pelvic floor muscles as hard as you can. Hold the contraction. If you squeeze the pelvic floor muscles at the right time, you will experience the penis contractions that are typical for an orgasm minus the ejaculation.
Needless to say, getting the timing right isn’t such a simple task. You may want to practice on your own prior to getting with a partner. Being with a lady could lead to excessive stimulation, making it very difficult for you to control the ejaculation.
Once you’ve mastered the basic dry orgasm technique, attempt having multiple orgasms. If you experience a dry orgasm and your erection doesn’t subside, you can keep on going and attempt to accomplish the same a second and a third time. With practice, you will get there sooner or later.
Remember to do lots of kegel exercises prior to attempting sex with a partner. If you don’t have control over the pelvic floor muscles, you’re not going to experience a dry orgasm. The stronger your pelvic floor is, the more control you’re going to have over your body’s response to arousal.
Even if you don’t get to an actual dry orgasm, edging is a great technique to try during sex. It will lead to a higher level of arousal for both you and your partner. The switch between intense stimulation and a period of relaxation will also build the anticipation, which can result in mind-blowing orgasms.