Sex is difficult! It often seems that men and women want different things, which is why many guys find it difficult to please a partner.
Are you still uncertain about what it would take to meet the sexual needs of your lady?
There are several things that just about every man can try in an attempt to boost satisfaction and contribute to a thrilling experience for both parties involved.
Learn To Compromise
Good sex is like a dance. You know what you want. You have some idea about what she wants. In order to get some, you’ll also have to give some.
Incorporating activities that both of you enjoy in the act will mean that both of you will be fully satisfied by the end.
Partners often involve in sexual activities that they’re not particularly thrilled about in order to please a partner. This is valid for both parties involved, not just the man.
Ask her for feedback during sex. Figure out what turns her on and what she enjoys the most. Having an idea about some of these activities can diversify your love-making efforts. It’s also very important to reciprocate each time she gives you pleasure.
If you’re a greedy lover and you put all of the emphasis on your own pleasure, you’ll never be capable of satisfying a woman 100 percent.
Verbal Affirmations During Sex
For women, sex is a much more emotional experience than it is for guys. Thus, to make her completely satisfied, you will need to work on intimacy. This intimacy doesn’t always involve using your body to stimulate hers. It may also involve using your words.
The technique is very simple, yet many guys refrain from doing it. Women are expected to be vocal during sex but most guys don’t feel the need to say anything.
Tell her that she’s beautiful and tell her which body part drives you wild. Tell her what you’d like to do to her next. The anticipation of your actions will bring her arousal up a notch and make the experience a truly delicious one.
If you don’t feel shy about it, you may even get a bit dirty in the bedroom. Dirty talk is an art that you’ll have to practice in order to master. Knowing that your partner enjoys it, however, will justify the effort 100 percent.
Try Something New
Is your usual sex routine failing to meet the mark? Trying something new is a fun way to spice things up and learn whether there’s something else your partner may be enjoying.
There are two ways to approach the possibility.
The easiest, most straightforward opportunity involves asking her for a bit of feedback. Inquire about her sexual preferences and fantasies. Ask her whether there’s something she enjoys that you haven’t tried yet.
If she’s open in her sexual communication, you’ll both get to reap the fruit of this conversation.
Alternatively, you may take the initiative when it comes to introducing new things to your bedroom routine. Explore her reactions to figure out whether you’ve come across an option that she enjoys immensely or if you’re doing something that she’s indifferent to.
Don’t Try Too Much
The harder you try to please her, the more devoid of intimacy the experience is going to be. You’re not robots. Sex isn’t just about technique and getting wild.
It should involve emotions and bonding, as well (unless we’re talking about a one-night stand).
Do what feels natural and enjoy your time with the respective woman. If both of you are having fun and you’re trying to please each other, chances are that sooner or later you’ll achieve that sexual balance.
Good sex is about communication and working on pleasing each other. Be open about your needs and expect the same from your partner. Once you open up and learn to speak to each other about sex, you’ll enjoy much steamier bedroom sessions.